Influencer Nara Smith Shares Hidden Marriage Rule on Driving

Influencer Nara Smith and her spouse, Lucky Blue Smith, follow several unspoken guidelines in their marriage, one of which pertains to driving.

“I always drive, no matter what,” Lucky Blue, 27, stated in a TikTok video on Friday, August 22. “It annoys me to see girls driving their partners. I can’t explain why.”

Nara, 23, mentioned that after five years of marriage, she doesn’t even “try” to take the wheel when they’re together.

“You also always make sure to fill up the tank,” she added. “I can’t recall the last time I pumped gas; it’s probably been years unless I’m on my own.”

To Lucky Blue, driving and filling the gas tank are “clear” responsibilities he holds in their partnership.

Other “unspoken rules” for the couple include Lucky Blue washing the dishes regularly, Nara “scanning the menu” at restaurants to order for him, and Nara always positioning herself on “the left side” of Lucky Blue.

“You need to be on the left so I can easily open doors,” he explained.

Lucky Blue is also responsible for taking out the trash, as Nara refuses to “handle the trash.” Furthermore, he manages washing their children’s hair “no matter what.”

“Lucky is particular about it,” she expressed. “I do the hairstyles when they need something special.”

Nara, a model, has garnered attention on social media for posting the elaborate homemade meals she prepares for Lucky Blue and their children. They are proud parents to Rumble Honey, 4, Slim Easy, 3, and Whimsy Lou, 17 months, with another baby on the way. (Lucky Blue also has an 8-year-old daughter, Gravity, from a previous relationship.)

Nara’s videos have ignited discussions about “trad wives,” a term describing women who choose to follow traditional gender roles in family life. However, Nara has rejected this label, affirming that she and Lucky Blue possess modern perspectives.

“Recently, someone said to me, ‘You lead a very traditional life.’ I was like, ‘What does that even mean?’” Nara shared during a July episode of Jay Shetty’s “On Purpose” podcast. “We share chores. Both of us work. We have kids. We divide everything. I cook because I love it, not out of obligation. Lucky cleans. There’s nothing traditional about our setup.”

Nara remarked that having her first child at 19 made her appear more “traditional” to outsiders.

“I never even considered that because I’ve always believed in allowing individuals to make their own choices and celebrating those decisions instead of judging them,” she clarified. “It was surprising to me that some people had a negative perspective on my decision to start my family early.”

Nara previously told Us Weekly that neither she nor Lucky Blue dwells on the online discussions.

“I think [people] project their feelings onto us because it’s easier for them,” Nara exclusively shared with Us in November 2024. “We just do our own thing. If it resonates with people, great. If not, that’s completely fine.”