Timeline of Jessi and Jordan Ngatikaura’s Relationship on Mormon Wives
Jessi Ngatikaura’s marriage to Jordan Ngatikaura gained attention when she revealed on The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives that she had an affair with Marciano Brunette.
The couple began dating and wed just before the popular Hulu series launched in September 2024. Initially, Jessi’s personal life was not in focus during the first season, but that changed after she filmed two episodes of Vanderpump Villa. Subsequently, rumors about Jessi’s connection with Marciano circulated, which she dismissed as merely a friendship while filming season 2.
During the season 2 finale in May 2025, viewers were shocked when Marciano asserted that he had slept with Jessi. She didn’t clarify the claims at first but hinted that more details would unfold on screen.
“I’ll say I’m an open book. Even though there were things I hadn’t shared yet — once I was in the position to share them — I have nothing to hide,” she told Us Weekly exclusively in June 2025. “I was ready to lay it all on the table.”
Jessi emphasized the importance of honesty, stating, “Everyone makes mistakes, including my husband and I. Sharing those experiences is relatable, and I hope others can benefit from it.”
Despite ongoing challenges, Jessi expressed optimism about her future with Jordan.
“Every relationship has its highs and lows. Being on reality TV puts everything under a microscope, and it’s tough not to let it affect your friendships, relationships, and family life,” she mentioned. “That was definitely challenging.”
Jessi added, “Now that we’re done filming for a while, my focus will be on my family and kids. I hope to be in a better headspace for the next filming, if it happens.”
She acknowledged the impact of the show on her marriage, sharing, “Filming the next season was possibly the hardest time of my life. I believe it will help many people, and I am excited to share my story.”
Keep reading to revisit Jessi and Jordan’s love story:
Before 2019
Jessi was previously married to a man named Zach before getting together with Jordan, who had a daughter, Peyton, from a prior relationship.
December 2019
“Happiness is that feeling that comes over you when you know life is good and you can’t help but smile,” Jordan posted during their Instagram debut. “@justjessiiii makes me feel this way every day. We started as friends and I’m so thankful for what we’ve become. I feel incredibly lucky to have you in my life.”
February 2020
Two months later, Jordan proposed, stating, “You’re the girl of my dreams; my best friend and soulmate. I can’t picture my life without you. We are tying the NGAT.”
April 2020
The couple welcomed their son Jagger.
“He is our perfect chunky boy!” Jordan wrote. “Unfortunately, he’s facing some lung issues and is currently in the NICU. He’s a fighter like his mom and is improving daily.”
October 2020
After the birth of their first child, Jessi and Jordan tied the knot later that year.
October 2021
“Happy first anniversary to my sweet wife! Thank you for being an amazing mom and partner,” Jordan posted on Instagram. “We’ve endured a lot in a short time, and I am excited about our future together. Love you @justjessiili.”
February 2022
Reflecting on their marriage, Jessi expressed appreciation for Jordan, saying, “This husband appreciation post goes out to this guy. His sacrifices for our family amaze me. It’s not easy to leave home for a demanding job.”
She continued, “I’m proud of what he’s doing for himself and our family. I miss you dearly, but I’m also incredibly proud. Love you, baby!!!”
2023
Jessi gave birth to their second child, a daughter named Jovi.
September 2024
The couple was introduced to viewers in The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives during its premiere. The series also featured other couples, including Jen Affleck and Zac Affleck, Demi Engemann and Bret Engemann, Whitney Leavitt and Conner Leavitt, and others.
October 2024
“Happy 4th Anniversary to my ride or die 🥰,” Jordan wrote. “Through all life’s ups and downs, you’re the one I rely on. I choose you forever and treasure the life we’ve built together.”
Jessi also celebrated the milestone, saying, “Happy Anniversary @justjordddy 💕 4 years feels like 4 lifetimes. We’ve lived such a vibrant life; it’s safe to say we’ve improved with time 😂 love you!!”
May 2025
The second season of Mormon Wives raised questions about Jessi’s marriage after Marciano alleged they had an affair. While Jessi denied the claims, she later acknowledged that there were issues to address with Jordan.
“Reality TV is challenging for any relationship, whether friendship or marriage,” Jessi expressed on the “The Viall Files” podcast in May 2025. “We’ve gone through a lot, and it’s now public.”
When asked about not wearing her wedding ring, Jessi noted they were “working through things” and said, “It’s challenging right now, but we’re doing our best.”
June 2025
“We’re currently working on our relationship. Each day brings new challenges,” Jessi shared exclusively with Us. “Marriage is tough, and you’ll see our ups and downs unfold in season 3.”
She remained hopeful about their relationship, stating, “I believe what we’re going through will inspire others. Many can relate.”
According to Jessi, they had “no choice” but to face their issues publicly, with cameras capturing their struggles.
July 2025
During the Mormon Wives reunion, Jessi was directly questioned about her alleged affair with Marciano.
“Many aspects of this story will be revealed in season 3, so I can’t discuss it right now,” she stated, expressing that Jordan may feel “anxious, nervous, and sad” about her possible affair. “We’re both navigating a lot right now, but he’s open to sharing his truth, and he has been transparent throughout season 3. We’re laying everything out — it’s not what you think, and there are no secrets.”
Jessi clarified that any interactions with Marciano occurred “after” he allegedly spoke with Demi off-camera. Later, when Jordan joined the discussion, he shared his thoughts on whether they would resolve their issues.
“I was aware of what transpired due to conversations with Jessi, but facing accusations was difficult. I tried to consult Bret about Marciano. It’s a delicate situation, as I see him weekly but we don’t communicate otherwise,” he said.
July 2025
The trailer for season 3 showed Jordan’s immediate reaction to the rumors about Marciano and Jessi, where he stated, “If I learn anything else, I’m done.”
Jessi was later seen confronting Marciano, asking, “Why did you lie to Layla about us?” Marciano suggested he was “influenced” by Demi and agreed to take a lie detector test with Jessi regarding their interactions.
November 2025
Season 3 revealed that Jessi and Jordan were facing marital challenges when she had a brief emotional affair with Marciano. Jessi, who mentioned that Jordan had been emotionally abusive, severed ties with Marciano and has since reconciled with her husband after filming completed.
