Which Bachelor Couples Are Still Together Today?
In 2002, a remarkable long-stemmed red rose altered the landscape of reality television forever. That year, “The Bachelor” made its debut, introducing audiences to Alex Michel on his quest to find true love while dating multiple women.
Two decades later, the franchise has birthed several spinoffs including “The Bachelorette” in 2003, “Bachelor in Paradise” in 2014, and most recently, “The Golden Bachelor.”
The show has cultivated a dedicated following known as Bachelor Nation with each new season.
To date, there have been 28 seasons of “The Bachelor.” Teaching tennis professional Joey Graziadei was the latest lead, proposing to his fiancée Kelsey Anderson at the conclusion of his season, and they’ve been sharing their love story since the finale aired on March 25.
After some seasons had dual leads, there have been 22 bachelorettes so far. Among them is Charity Lawson, who fell in love with Dotun Olubeko in the latest installment. Additionally, Gerry Turner was the first lead of “The Golden Bachelor” in 2023.
While many seasons culminate in a proposal, numerous couples have publicly split just months later. The most recent case involves “Golden Bachelor” star Gerry and his wife Theresa Nist, who revealed their divorce on April 12.
Rachel Lindsay and Bryan Abasolo, who met on Season 13 of “The Bachelorette,” tied the knot in August 2019 but announced their separation in January.
Although it is true that many couples don’t end up getting married after the show, recent seasons have demonstrated an increasing success rate — and some couples from earlier seasons still thrive.
Explore the happy couples from “The Bachelor” and “The Bachelorette” who have successfully found love in the world of reality television below.
‘The Golden Bachelor’ couple
Gerry Turner and Theresa Nist (Season 1)
The inaugural season of “The Golden Bachelor,” featuring contestants aged 60 to 75 on their quest for love, culminated in an engagement … along with a wedding special.
However, just three months following their televised wedding, Gerry Turner, 72, and Theresa Nist, 70, announced their divorce, sharing their decision during an ABC News interview on April 12.
“We’ve closely examined our situation and living conditions and mutually concluded that it’s time to dissolve our marriage,” Gerry shared.
Both Gerry and Theresa had experienced the loss of their high school sweethearts due to unexpected illnesses, which fostered a connection between them during their courtship.
‘The Bachelorette’ couples
Trista Sutter and Ryan Sutter (Season 1)
The first Bachelorette, Trista Sutter, and her husband Ryan are still happily together. They tied the knot in a television special in 2003, a moment made famous when Trista jumped into Ryan’s arms after the officiant declared, “Will you please kiss your bride?”
The Sutters are parents to two children: 16-year-old son Maxwell and 14-year-old daughter Blakesley.
In recent years, their family has faced some health challenges. In June 2022, Trista and Ryan opened up about Ryan’s Lyme Disease diagnosis in 2021.
“For a long time, my focus was solely on surviving each day,” he told People. “However, I feel my life is coming back, which is very encouraging.” Trista added, “Ryan is our everyday hero, so seeing him struggle weighs heavily on me.”
Fortunately, Ryan reported feeling “better” after finding a successful treatment and resumed his backpacking trips with their children.
On June 18, Trista shared a heartfelt tribute to Ryan on Instagram celebrating Father’s Day.
“We love him to infinity and beyond for all the little moments, big moments, and everything in between,” she wrote alongside a video of Ryan’s cherished moments with their children. “To the best father and the love of my life… Happy Father’s Day.”
Desiree Hartsock and Chris Siegfried (Season 9)
Desiree Hartsock Siegfried encountered a slightly turbulent finale to her season when one of her frontrunners, Brooks Forester, broke up with her during fantasy suite week. Nevertheless, she moved on and accepted a proposal from Chris Siegfried.
Desiree and Chris shared a profound connection throughout her season, though many fans initially doubted her choice. She consistently defended their love and her decision to be with him.
Over a decade later, Desiree and Chris’s relationship is thriving, countering all doubts. They now have two sons: Asher, 6, and Zander, 4.
Their love story flourishes on social media, where the couple regularly shares sweet insights into their marriage and heartfelt moments.
On June 28, 2023, he posted a photo of them holding two red roses, a hallmark of Bachelor Nation. Chris affectionately referred to Desiree as his “biggest supporter” in the caption.
They celebrated their nine-year wedding anniversary in January 2024.
They shared a video from their wedding day on Instagram, with Desiree reflecting, “N I N E years ago today my life changed forever! I walked down the aisle to my forever! It’s been almost ten years of life’s lessons, growth, and both good and tough times, but honestly, I can’t imagine doing this life with anyone else.”
JoJo Fletcher and Jordan Rodgers (Season 12)
From the first episode, JoJo Fletcher and Jordan Rodgers’ connection was unmistakable — the former NFL player received her first impression rose. The two left the show engaged in 2018.
Rather than rushing into marriage, they chose to prolong their engagement. In 2019, Jordan even proposed to JoJo again with a fresh ring.
In May 2022, JoJo shared an adorable Instagram video featuring highlights from the proposal and the first night she met Jordan.
“Six years with you. Here’s to forever, my love. Happy Anniversary,” she wrote in the caption.
Shortly after her post, the couple got married. She shared a wedding photo to Instagram, exclaiming, “5.14.22. Brace yourselves for an overload of wedding photos… it was the best weekend ever and I can’t wait to share!”
They currently co-host the dating show “The Big D” on USA Network, assisting other couples in their quest for love.
Charity Lawson and Dotun Olubeko (Season 20)
Charity Lawson’s season concluded with her torn between two men she deeply loved, ultimately choosing one without any reservations.
During the “After the Final Rose” special, Charity and Dotun Olubeko, a 30-year-old integrative health specialist from Brooklyn, shared their excitement about publicly embracing their relationship.
“We’ve been waiting for this moment. Just to be free and live our lives normally. This is everything,” expressed Charity.
“She means everything to me,” Dotun added, saying he’s “never been so certain” about anything before.
Though there is no wedding date set yet, Charity disclosed in an interview with People that they plan on having two weddings.
‘The Bachelor’ couples
Sean Lowe and Catherine Giudici (Season 17)
Among the 26 seasons of “The Bachelor,” Sean Lowe stands out as the single lead who married his final pick: Catherine Giudici.
The couple’s love story was one of the show’s most captivating. Catherine was not involved in the drama of Season 17, thus receiving limited screen time, but by the time of the hometown dates, the chemistry and connection were undeniable.
Their televised wedding took place in 2014, and since then, they have welcomed three children: 7-year-old son Samuel, 5-year-old son Isaiah, and 3-year-old daughter Mia.
On July 13, Sean shared an affectionate family photo, complete with a dad joke in the caption.
“I think it’s crucial to travel with your kids while they’re young so they can experience what chicken fingers taste like in different countries,” he humorously noted.
Catherine for her part posted a nostalgic video capturing a romantic moment from his season along with an old photoshoot picture of them.
“…and we would be so happy,” she sweetly remarked in the caption on June 29.
Zach Shallcross and Kaity Biggar (Season 27)
After Zach Shallcross invited Kaity Biggar to spend the night at the Natural History Museum in Episode Three, she quickly emerged as a frontrunner.
Their bond grew stronger with each episode. Zach could vividly imagine his life with Kaity after visiting her hometown of Austin, Texas, where he also resides. However, they experienced a hiccup during Fantasy Suites Week.
Initially, Zach informed contestants Gabi Elnicki and Ariel Frenkel that he wished to avoid physical closeness. He later reconsidered and confided in Kaity about his fantasy suite date with Gabi during a heartfelt conversation.
Kaity questioned why Zach needed to share insights about his other relationships, but they quickly resolved their conflict, culminating in his proposal during the finale.
Since the season wrapped, the couple has participated in several engagement photoshoots and frequently post moments together.
In February 2024, they traveled to Dubai, sharing a photo of themselves dining and enjoying champagne on the beach.
“The most romantic night,” Kaity captioned the post.
Joey Graziadei and Kelsey Anderson (Season 28)
During the Season 28 finale, host Jesse Palmer remarked that Joey Graziadei might be the best bachelor in the show’s history, a sentiment echoed by Bachelor Nation who adored his attentive nature and caring demeanor. His connection with Kelsey Anderson was remarkable.
As the finale approached, Kelsey and Daisy Kent were his final two choices. However, it became increasingly clear to Daisy, along with viewers, that Kelsey shared a unique bond with Joey.
Kelsey expressed her emotions while meeting Joey’s family during their one-on-one times. Their final date featured a relaxing spa day that highlighted their similar quirky personalities. That evening, Joey reassured Kelsey about his feelings for her.
Aware of her status, Daisy confronted Joey on proposal day, telling him, “As much as this pains me, I know you want the best for me, and that means I need to leave.”
Kelsey then made a stunning entrance in a fringe white gown, her hair billowing in the wind. Upon professing his love for her, Joey got down on one knee and proposed, to which she enthusiastically responded, “Yes!”
“I’m so happy!” she exclaimed.
During the “After the Final Rose” segment, the couple confirmed that their relationship is thriving. Joey plans to move to Kelsey’s hometown of New Orleans until they shift to New York City together this upcoming summer.
“We’ve never been stronger,” Joey stated.
The day after the finale, the newly engaged couple shared a joint post on Instagram celebrating their engagement with drinks, photos from a date in Jasper, Canada, and cozy moments together in eye masks.
“Just checking in as the luckiest guy in the world…” Joey began in his thoughtful caption.
He recounted receiving an invitation from a producer in January 2023 about potentially applying for “The Bachelorette.”
“Today, I realize it was hands down the best decision of my life. Everything that unfolded after has led me to this incredible woman, who is unlike anyone I have met before,” he wrote.
He continued, “She is kind, beautiful, fun-loving, genuine, and my guiding light.”
Joey reaffirmed the sweet sentiment he expressed during the proposal: “I always knew I wanted a beautiful life, but I never realized how beautiful it could be until you came into my life.”
As he concluded the post, he declared, “I love you forever Kelsey. This is just the start.”
Kelsey shared the post on her Instagram story, revealing the playful nickname she has for her fiancé.
“Pookieeee,” she noted underneath his heartfelt message.
Honorable mentions
Jason Mesnick and Molly Malaney (‘The Bachelor’ Season 13)
Season 13 of “The Bachelor,” featuring Jason Mesnick as the lead, may very well be known as the “most dramatic season ever.”
Throughout the season, Jason formed powerful bonds with both Melissa Rycroft and Molly Malaney. On the final day, he made the unexpected decision to break up with Molly.
Grieved by the heartbreak, Jason was seen crying on a balcony before proposing to Melissa.
In one of the most shocking moments in Bachelor history, Jason ended his engagement with Melissa live during an “After the Final Rose” tap, surprising Melissa and millions of viewers by revealing his desire to pursue a relationship with Molly.
Subsequently, Melissa participated in and won “Dancing With the Stars: All-Stars” in 2012. She married Tye Strickland and they are parents to three children.
Jason’s initial decision struck him as one of the most unpopular Bachelors at the time, but ultimately, he and Molly wed on ABC in 2010 and welcomed a daughter, Riley, in 2013.
Jason is also the father of 18-year-old son Ty from a previous marriage.
In May, he shared adorable family photos of Molly, Riley, and Ty in celebration of Mother’s Day.
“Molly is truly incredible… just like Riley. I wish everyone could witness the profoundly loving influence she’s had in Ty’s life each day,” he praised in the caption. “I love you, babe!”
Arie Luyendyk and Lauren Burnham (‘The Bachelor’ Season 22)
After participating in Emily Maynard’s season of “The Bachelorette” in 2012, Arie Luyendyk Jr. returned to lead one of the most tumultuous seasons of “The Bachelor” in 2018.
Arie initially proposed to fan-favorite Becca but soon realized he still had feelings for Lauren Burnham. After ending his relationship with Lauren at the conclusion of his season, he began questioning his decision.
While the season remained underway, Arie broke off his engagement with Becca during a secret home visit, showing viewers the moment she removed her engagement ring in disbelief.
At the “After the Final Rose” taping, Lauren gave Arie a second opportunity. Becca was designated the next Bachelorette.
In 2019, Lauren and Arie exchanged vows and now share a 4-year-old daughter named Alessia, along with 2-year-old twins, daughter Senna and son Lux.
The family enjoys balancer between their homes in Maui and Scottsdale, Arizona.
In May, Lauren and Arie enjoyed a romantic getaway to Mykonos, Greece.
“‘I can be your gyro baby’ – caption by Lauren,” Arie added alongside a photo of them kissing near a pool.
