Which Couples from ‘The Ultimatum’ Remain Together?

Following three seasons of “The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On,” the Netflix dating show has revealed an unexpected success rate.

For those unfamiliar, each season of “The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On” showcases several couples at a crossroads, with one partner eager to marry and the other uncertain.

After a brief breakup, the contestants date other participants and choose new partners for a three-week trial marriage. Ultimately, they reunite with their original partners to determine whether they wish to get engaged, break up, or begin a new relationship with their trial partner.

This journey is challenging: Every season sees at least two participants leaving the experiment prematurely. In Season 3, which premiered on December 4, four contestants acknowledged that the show was not suitable for them and left swiftly. The remaining cast members pushed through the emotionally intense experience, building connections and facing hard truths about their relationships.

At the conclusion of the latest season, two couples became engaged while the other two parted ways. Continue reading to learn which couples from Season 3 are still together. Also, catch up with the stars of Seasons 1 and 2 to see their current status.

Season 1

Shanique Brown and Randall Griffin

Relationship status: Engaged

At the conclusion of his journey on the show, Randall Griffin expressed his reflections on the obstacles he and Shanique Brown encountered throughout the experience. He described Shanique as his best friend and revealed he had always envisioned marrying her — leading to his proposal.

She accepted, and they shared an embrace. Soon after, they excitedly proclaimed, “We’re engaged!” to the camera.

However, during the Season 1 reunion, co-host Vanessa Lachey pointed out that Shanique was not wearing her engagement ring. Shanique clarified that the issues they had discussed on the show persisted upon their return to reality. Consequently, they separated for six months. Shanique later referred to this period as “the hardest time of her life,” though she eventually shared that they had reconciled and were committed to working on their relationship.

In July 2023, Randall proposed once more. They celebrated their engagement with a joint Instagram post.

Their post featured a series of photos capturing the proposal moment, along with a close-up of Shanique’s stunning diamond ring. “Yes! — Today and all of our tomorrows,” she wrote in the caption, complemented by an infinity symbol and a white heart.

In November, they appeared to confirm that they had set a wedding date with the announcement, “Let the Countdown Begin. 5•25•25 #GainingAGriffin,” shared in a joint Instagram post.

April Marie Melohn and Jake Cunningham

Relationship status: Broken up

During “Decision Day,” April Marie Melohn and Jake Cunningham met, and she expressed her readiness to marry him. However, he was not on the same page.

He responded, “I tried to push every ounce of myself to get there. I’m just not ready for it.” April was emotional as Jake expressed his love for her and wished her well.

At the reunion, April shared that she had started dating someone new following the end of the show. Just days after the reunion aired, she made her relationship with boyfriend Cody Cooper Instagram official. The couple welcomed their first child together, daughter Mila Aven Cooper, in August 2023.

“Baby Girl IS HERE!” she announced on Instagram.

“Everything still feels so completely surreal right now,” she added. “Baby girl is healthy (and) so perfect.”

In August, the couple welcomed their second child, daughter Ava Miley Cooper.

Jake appeared on Season 2 of “Perfect Match,” which premiered in June, but he did not find a connection. He became Instagram official with his new girlfriend in September. He captioned a photo of them holding hands and smiling, “Say hello to the Queen.”

Rae Williams and Zay Wilson

Relationship status: Broken up

By the start of Season 1, Episode 9, Rae Williams and Zay Wilson had already ended their relationship. During a brief reunion for their second trial marriage, Zay left their shared apartment and didn’t return until the next morning, resulting in Rae being upset. Upon his return at 8 a.m., a physical altercation occurred. Rae candidly admitted on camera that she was “so angry when he came home that she literally punched him.”

In the reunion, Rae disclosed that she had attempted to rekindle her connection with Zay after the show concluded. “Zay and I did try to resolve our issues. Ultimately, it didn’t work out, but we gave it a fair shot,” Rae articulated. “I made an effort to be more expressive, and he improved his communication style after the show.”

Post-show, Rae partnered with Playboy on several projects and photoshoots, while Zay is currently pursuing a career in country music. He launched his debut single, “Slow Game,” in April.

Jake Cunningham and Rae Williams

Relationship status: Broken up

After concluding his relationship with April during the Season 1 finale, Jake turned his attention to Rae, with whom he shared his first trial marriage. Jake suggested embarking on an adventure, stating that he had two tickets to anywhere in the world and wanted Rae to join him. She agreed, and they departed together, hand in hand.

Eventually, Jake and Rae chose not to pursue the trip and broke up. “We all agreed that everyone required some time to heal,” Rae stated, explaining their decision to “backtrack.”

Madlyn Ballatori and Colby Kissinger

Relationship status: Married

On “Decision Day,” Colby Kissinger expressed to Madlyn Kissinger (née Ballatori), “I’ve given you my heart, and I want you to keep it forever,” before proposing. Madlyn, who hadn’t spoken yet, expressed her feelings by kissing Colby, leading to her acceptance of his proposal.

Colby mentioned that he could not wait any longer and insisted on marrying her immediately. Madlyn agreed once again, and they exchanged vows right then and there.

During the reunion, Colby and Madlyn surprised the audience by announcing they were expecting a baby girl together.

Their daughter, Josephine “Josie” Riley, was born less than a month later on May 2, 2022. “We could not be more in love,” Madlyn shared on Instagram in a since-deleted post featuring the newlyweds with their daughter.

In January, the couple revealed that Josie was set to become a big sister in a now-deleted announcement. They confirmed in March that a baby boy was joining their family.

Colby and Madlyn welcomed son Conrad Lloyd Kissinger on September 13, 2023.

“Conrad Lloyd Kissinger🤍Welcome to the world!” they wrote alongside a slideshow of pictures showcasing the newborn in their hospital embrace.

“God is so good! Our lives are even brighter because of you,” they shared.

Madlyn announced on Instagram in September that she is expecting the couple’s third child, a baby boy.

“Baby Kissinger #3 is on HIS way!” she excitedly captioned her post. “Between Colby’s family and mine, we will welcome 5 new babies by April 2025! Such a beautiful season of growth and life! God is good.”

Lauren Pounds and Nathan Ruggles

Relationship status: Married

Nathan Ruggles and Lauren Pounds departed the show mid-season after an unexpected proposal. At the reunion, they confirmed they were still engaged, and they wed in October 2022.

Lauren shared on Instagram that their wedding was “everything we could have asked for.”

Nathan, too, posted photos from their big day and expressed, “I still can’t get over how amazing our day was. Thanks to our loved ones for making it even more special!”

He added, “And to my WIFE!! I love you so much, and I can’t wait to share forever with you!”

Lauren gave birth to their son in June 2024. “Hudson Jay Ruggles,” she wrote alongside adorable photos of their newborn.

“We’re so in love…a perfect little angel,” she added.

Alexis Maloney and Hunter Parr

Relationship status: Married

Alexis Maloney and Hunter Parr, who left the process early in Season 1, returned for the reunion to share they were in the midst of planning their wedding.

On June 18, 2022, they exchanged vows at the Wayfarers Chapel in Rancho Palos Verdes, California.

She shared numerous pictures from their wedding day, writing, “First walk as Mrs. Parr” in one post.

Beside a photo capturing their gaze into each other’s eyes, Hunter expressed, “Forever cheesing with my beautiful wife. 06.18.2022.”

The couple celebrated their first wedding anniversary in Paris, with Hunter posting photos from the trip, including one of him dipping Alexis in front of the Eiffel Tower. “Happy 1 year Anniversary, baby girl! Love you so much, here’s to many more,” he wrote.

Season 2

Lisa Horne and Brian Okoye

Relationship status: Engaged

Season 2 commenced with a significant confrontation between Lisa and Brian in Episode 2 after she encountered difficulties with the process. In Episode 3, co-host Nick Lachey announced that the couple had exited the show due to Lisa’s pregnancy revelation. Lisa opened up about the unexpected pregnancy during an interview with TODAY.com.

At the reunion, Lisa and Brian shared their joy about welcoming their baby boy, Mason.

The couple announced their engagement in May 2024. “My Fiancé, my Wife to be You’re a kiss from a rose,” Brian expressed in a joint Instagram post that included a video of the proposal. He continued, “You are everything that I dreamed of, perfect as you are and as you will be. We’ll cherish this moment for life. I love you unconditionally.”

In the video, Brian’s family and friends assisted him in surprising Lisa with a romantic proposal surrounded by roses, kneeling in front of a heart-shaped neon sign that read, “Will you marry me?”

Lisa commented on the post, “The dreamiest proposal ever babe. I love you so deeply, my Fiancé.”

Roxanne Kaiser and Antonio Mattei

Relationship status: Married

Throughout Season 2, Roxanne Kaiser voiced her uncertainty about marrying Antonio Mattei. She was conflicted about whether she would accept a proposal on “Decision Day.” Antonio reflected on their relationship’s growth over the weeks before kneeling down to propose. After a pause, Roxanne nodded and said “yes.”

Despite some friction, the couple later shared with TODAY.com that they had matured together since the show ended and were excited about their future.

In October 2024, they tied the knot. People reported that the wedding took place at Chateau Elan near Atlanta, featuring both American and Persian ceremonies, with about 150 guests.

Roxanne posted the article on her Instagram, captioning it, “If I’m gonna do it, I’m gonna do it big.”

Kat Shelton and Alex Chapman

Relationship status: Married

Kat Chapman (née Shelton) and Alex Chapman both displayed nervous energy on “Decision Day.”

“Hopefully, you’ll continue to light the way for me, make me the happiest person ever…will you marry me?” Alex asked Kat, to which she joyfully agreed.

The couple said “I do” in May 2024 and enjoyed a 10-day Mediterranean cruise for their honeymoon. Since then, Kat has consistently shared pictures and videos from their wedding and romantic travels.

In a July slideshow of wedding photos, she wrote, “The photos are in! Apparently, rain brings good luck? Nonetheless, it led to the most magical atmosphere regardless.”

Ryann McCracken and James Morris

Relationship status: Married

Ryann McCracken Morris and James Morris, who had been high school sweethearts, dated for seven years until she issued an ultimatum. Initially, James was uncertain about Ryann being “the one,” but by “Decision Day,” he was prepared to propose.

Ryann accepted, expressing gratitude for participating in the show.

They tied the knot in September 2023. “Forever besties,” they captioned a photo carousel of their special day.

In April, they revealed they were expecting their first child. Their daughter, Sunny James Morris, was born on October 3, 2024.

“Our little ray of sunshine is finally here,” they announced shortly after her birth.

Riah Nelson and Trey Brunson

Relationship status: Engaged

After a two-year courtship, Treyvon “Trey” Brunson knew he wanted to marry Jeriah “Riah” Nelson. However, Riah had doubts and felt hurt when Trey developed a close bond with Ryann during their trial marriage.

He reassured Riah on Decision Day that his love for her remained strong and asked her to marry him. Riah accepted, but during the reunion, the couple disclosed they faced challenges after filming concluded.

Soon after the reunion aired, Riah and Trey shared on Instagram that they were expecting a baby. Their daughter, Lailanni Brunson, was born in late 2023.

“SOOOOOOO IN LOVE!” they exclaimed in a January 2024 joint post announcing her arrival. “This has been an amazing journey. Witnessing our little one come into the world healthy was the perfect way to close out 2023.”

In May, Riah opened up about her experiences in pregnancy and motherhood. “Being a mom has surpassed my wildest dreams. My heart is overflowing with love and joy. Each moment makes my heart melt a little more. From carrying my precious baby to raising her, I feel blessed beyond measure,” she wrote. “Thank you for choosing me to be your mommy and altering my life forever! Thanks also for allowing me to be a mommy again, @treyb16.”

Season 3

Sandy Gallagher and Nick Tramontin

Relationship status: Broken up

Among the Season 3 contestants, Nick found himself struggling the most within the show’s format. He was compelled to continue his first trial marriage alone after Vanessa departed. This led him to spiral, worrying Sandy was developing feelings for her trial marriage partner, J.R.

Sandy disclosed to TODAY.com that this aspect of the experiment negatively impacted her relationship with Nick, ultimately contributing to their breakup. On “Decision Day,” both expressed their love and mentioned personal growth throughout the show, though when Nick appeared to reach for a ring, (later revealed to be a letter) Sandy panicked. His interpretation of her reaction gave him clarity, and they parted ways after a brief disagreement regarding their relationship.

“I will always love him and care for him as a person,” Sandy explained to TODAY.com. “That connection is far greater than this show and our experiences. However, it doesn’t necessitate that we date or marry.”

During the reunion, Nick announced he had moved on and was in a new relationship.

Jon Richard “J.R.” Warren and Zaina Sesay

Relationship status: Broken up

When Zaina showed up on “Decision Day,” she was anxious yet optimistic about the possibility of an engagement. “You have shown me so much love and support. I want to thank you for that,” J.R. expressed. “I wasn’t ready to receive it previously.”

However, he noted he still had personal development to complete and was not prepared for the next stage in their relationship. Zaina shared with TODAY.com that she felt completely blindsided by J.R.’s final choice.

“It was just harsh because throughout the trial marriage, he kept saying the right things that led me to believe he had hope for our future,” she recalled. “I thought we’d leave together, or at least remain in a relationship outside of the show.”

During the reunion, tension lingered as they debated what led to their breakup. Zaina felt that J.R. lacked clear communication post-show, leaving her uncertain about their status. J.R. defended himself, claiming he communicated his need for space but that Zaina didn’t grasp it.

Despite their difficulties, Zaina appreciated J.R.’s support, especially in regards to freezing her eggs after their time on the show.

Aria De’Westbrooks and Scotty Lewis

Relationship status: Broken up

Throughout their journey on “The Ultimatum,” Aria and Scotty often found themselves misaligned. They frequently argued and questioned if they were compatible as a couple. Meanwhile, Aria formed a bond with her trial husband, Caleb, who proved to be more understanding and supportive than Scotty.

However, on Decision Day, Scotty promised to deliver the love Aria had been yearning for. “Above everything, I want you to know that I choose you, today and all my tomorrows. You are not just a woman I want to be with, you are the one I can’t be without,” he said before proposing. Aria tearfully accepted, and they exited the show as an engaged couple.

At the reunion, Aria shared that she experienced an immediate change of heart, breaking off the engagement the very next day. She became emotional while conveying that she felt Scotty did not fulfill his promises. She mentioned asking Scotty to attend couples therapy, but he postponed, leading to their eventual split.

In an interview with TODAY.com, Scotty expressed his regrets about his behavior on the show. “I brought a lot of my personal pain into this experience. I realize I hurt Aria, who was genuinely putting in effort. I wish I could take that back. I wish I could convey to her how much she means to me,” he reflected.

Caleb Storm and Mariah Zernik

Relationship status: Engaged

Mariah, the youngest participant in Season 3, issued an ultimatum to Caleb, who was uncertain about being the right partner for her. Through his trial marriage with Aria, Caleb gained newfound confidence, supported by Aria’s encouragement.

Upon reuniting with Mariah, the two frequently clashed, with Mariah concerned that Caleb downplayed his feelings for Aria. Despite their disagreements, Caleb proposed to Mariah, and she accepted.

At the reunion, Mariah showcased her engagement ring, confirming their happiness together. The episode featured adorable photos and videos from a West Coast road trip where the couple shared their engagement news with their families face-to-face.

However, tension arose when Aria disclosed that Caleb had liked some of her Instagram content and had not fully communicated the events of their first trial marriage. Mariah became emotional, expressing how challenging it was to relive the moments on-screen where Caleb appeared so attached to Aria.

He apologized for not being forthcoming, stating that he wished to protect Mariah’s feelings.

Chanel Watkins and Micah Hardeman

Relationship status: Dating

Chanel and Micah’s experience during Season 3 ended suddenly as they were one of two couples to leave during the initial trial marriages. “Earlier that day, Dave, Vanessa, Micah, and Chanel had an off-camera meeting,” a title card presented in Episode 4 stated, “That evening, surveillance footage captured them packing.”

While co-host Nick Lachey mentioned during the reunion that the four participants were invited, he disclosed that Micah and Chanel had opted out of attending. Micah addressed this on his Instagram story on December 18, the day of the reunion’s airing: “Once you walkaway from something, there’s no need for a ‘reunion’ — especially when honesty isn’t elemental,” he remarked.

Chanel provided a more detailed explanation on her social media platforms. She noted that numerous aspects made her feel “very uncomfortable.” Chanel also shared that Micah and Vanessa were similarly navigating troubling experiences.

It appears Chanel and Micah are still together, as they uploaded a joint post on December 16 showcasing a sweet moment from a recent date night.

Vanessa Hattaway and Dave Adams

Relationship status: Dating

The second couple to exit early was Vanessa and Dave. They chose to attend the reunion together, discussing their reasons for leaving the show. When Nick, Vanessa’s trial marriage partner, inquired why she didn’t say goodbye or provide an explanation, she responded that she felt no obligation to do so after only a few days of knowing him. She also mentioned that Nick’s behavior during their trial marriage contributed to her decision to leave.

Vanessa expressed that Nick’s emotional struggles began on their first day together, leading to a “rollercoaster” experience, as he worried about Sandy’s connection with J.R. She noted her attempts to be supportive, stating that Nick often appeared distant and reluctant to accept her help.

Dave expressed that he wished to leave because, “it just felt like the experience became unnecessary at some point.” He added, “I learned a lot about myself. I recognized this is my person, and I am ready to go now.”

He confirmed that even before they selected their new partners, he was certain about wanting to leave.

Vanessa stated that the show facilitated their progress as a couple. Dave nodded in agreement, noting they began planning their future immediately after leaving. “I’m still 100% eager to marry Vanessa, and that is undoubtedly the next step,” he affirmed.